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Rule 7: Don't rush the dating process - build the mystery - forcing repells attraction

Again, this goes with keeping busy. Never see a girl more then twice a week for at least the first 10 to 20 dates. Seriously. I know you will want to spend all your time with someone if you think she's the one, but, you need to build the attraction, not force it. This way is best for both of you. I feel most guys will settle for a girl because she wants a relationship, even tho she might not be the girl for him.

Take your time, have fun, date multiple women, it's ok.

Rule 8: Let things go, the past is the past - but always tell it as it is - no hangups!

Every one has a past, and if I've made any mistake too much, its this one. You have to accept people for who they are, if you really like someone, leave the past where it belongs, in the past.

We all have baggage. Of course, there are limits.

Rule 9: Don't write sappy emails ever, never write anything because of fear or insecurity What is it with guys and writing sappy letters or emails when they feel like they are losing the girl or have lost the girl. If a girl breaks up with you, let it go, move on with your life, start dating again and you will find this will bring back love quicker then a sappy email professing your undying love for the girl.

Think before you speak, think before you type!

Rule 10: Girls find a guy hot when he has a plan for life - IE I told a girlfriend about my dreams for life

I don't know what it is, but when your talking about something your passionate about, people are naturally attracted to you. I use to date a girl who played guitar and she was so passionate about it, it was a real turn on. She knew what she wanted to be and I found that sexy.

Same thing applies to men. I tell girls about my dream of running the largest publishing company in the world one day and girls find my passion and that idea really attractive. Rule 11: Don't appologise for the sake of appologising - Don't appologise if you've done nothing wrong

This is a real turn off for women. Guys have a habit of appologising for girls bad behaviours and it's not on.

Women see this as a sign of weakness. If a girl is doing something or saying something you don't like, tell her that. If she's acting bratty, tell her that.

Don't put up with moody behaviour just because she thinks you deserve to be treated that way, you don't.

Rule 12: First Date Advice - Lean Back Relax Don't Be Nervous, Be Confident, Funny, Cocky, But Don't Take It Too Far!

I must admit, one date I did take the cocky and funny routine a bit far and probably was a bit more relaxed then I should have been and I came across very arrogant and sarcastic.

Arrogance is a huge turn off and there is a fine line between that and cocky and funny. Rule 13: No matter how funny or cocky you are, treat sex with respect. If you do have sex with a girl, make it special, like she's the only one that matters.

Rule 14: Dress well, but don't over do it! Personal Life

Rule 1: Exercise often - 100 situps, 100 pushups, running, work on arms

Girls don't care if you're not buff, but looks are important too. Take care of your body if for no one else but yourself.

I do 100 situps, 100 pushups every day. I do a light weight session focusing on building bigger arms and chest muscles. I also run 3 times a week. This is a perfect workout that takes very little time out of your week and will make you look and feel a lot better inside and out, I guarantee it!

Rule 2: Never let anything or anyone overwhelm my emotions to the point of incapacitation

Nothing in life is worth letting your life go down the drains for. If something bad happens, pick yourself up, don't stop working or letting your finances suffer.

Rule 3: Be Independent always

Rule 4: Always keep learning new things and travel

Read lots, watch documentaries, take courses and travel all you can. You'll thank me for this advice one day.

Rule 5: Always have fun always have a positive attitude - everything will be ok

Rule 6: Every day or when you feel stressed sit silent for 30 minutes and think about nothing just relax

This great advice I received from Allen Says, you can read the whole principle behind this at ....

Rule 7: Don't let little things rattle you - never over react

Life is full of little surprises, just like dating, but let them rattle you, just keep going on with your life like nothing happened.

He who angers you becomes your master.

Rule 8: Create a life's to do list and follow thru with it completely and systematically This is something you must do. Everyone has goals for life, I don't care if it's only 4 things, write them down and check them off. I have close to 100 things I want to do before I do, like learn to speak German, go to Oktoberfest, things like that.

I also have more serious things like, Run the largest publishing company in the world, which I still quite havn't checked off yet ;)

Rule 9: Set high goals and standards for your life and never let anyone compromise them

Rule 10: Always have an open mind and don't be judgemental

Rule 11: Don't Get Moody With People! - Just Relax!

Nothing lowers the level of conversation more than raising the voice.

Rule 12: You Miss 100% Of The Shots You Don't Take!

It's Alright To Have Faults And Be Yourself - You Have My Permission To Make Mistakes

Like I said in the above section, I've made mistakes before and at the time I thought I was the biggest idiot, but it's all a part of learning how to be successful with women. No one is perfect and it's ok to have quirky little habits, no woman expects you to be perfect or a dating robot that knows exactly what to do at all times.

The main thing is to make sure it doesn't get you down and you don't stop trying if you have a bad experience. Every woman isn't going to like you and vice versa, but.... You miss 100% of all shots you don't take!